The best options are medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic

This sex toy was voted best for solo pleasure by our expert

“Find a setting you think is fun and use it on different parts of your body to see how it feels. Remember, there’s no ‘right’ way to pleasure yourself.” Solo sex not only helps you figure out what gives you pleasure but helps you feel more confident during partnered sex, which can lead to more fulfilling and healthy relationships. Dr. Lincoln adds that there’s no risk of sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy with masturbation. The Laya III’s C-shape allows it to cup your entire vulva hands-free (so you can focus on using those elsewhere). Pressure or friction in that area can be intensely satisfying ,” says Shannon.

The streamlined design is easy for first-time users to get the hang of and may appeal to folks looking for a solid vibrator without overcomplicated bells and whistles, they add. This prevents bacteria from staying trapped in your toy, even after you sanitize it. The best options are medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic, although you can also find toys made from borosilicate glass, quartz, and stainless steel. Editors also spoke with a sex and relationship expert to better educate readers on how sex toys may enhance relationships and the role that they may play when lovers are apart.

Simply place the vibrator in the included lace knickers and give the remote control to your partner, who can use it from up to eight metres away. Hand the reins over to your partner with this innovative app-controlled vibrator from Lovense. The app controls can work from any distance too, so long-distance couples can get in on the fun.

The Tracey Cox EDGE Maximum Control Adjustable Stamina Ring is a fan favorite. It may not look like a traditional model, with its slide-to-fit viberator, adjustable ring, but it allows anyone with a penis to achieve a snug, effective fit. If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, SheKnows may receive an affiliate commission. When you are ready for penetration, however, Jawed-Wessel recommends trying a toy that is narrower and shorter than what you were used to pre-birth. We recommend riding one of these grinders if you’re sensitive to direct or focused stimulation. You can set them up on the floor or your bed or even lay them on top of your usual couch arm (we won’t tell).

Whether you consider yourself a size queen, a bullet buff, or something in between, you’ll find at least one option here to rock your world. Join our email list and receive exclusive offers, CRAVE Culture editions, and early access to every new product drop. They may all have the same goal, but each vibrator on this list is unique. Unlike the Pom, Mimi can’t bend and doesn’t come with its own pouch.